If youโve been feeling a little more wound-up than usual lately, thereโs a deceptively simple technique you might want to try: Tapping. Donโt worryโyou wonโt need to dig out your old tap shoes or risk waking the neighbors. This kind of Tapping, officially called the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), only requires your fingertips and a few minutes of focus.
It may sound a little out thereโlike the kind of wellness trend that belongs in a โsnake oilโ aisle. But EFT has more than a woo-woo following. Research shows that Tapping can lower cortisol (the stress hormone) by nearly 25 percent, and itโs already being used as an evidence-based tool for conditions like anxiety, PTSD, depression, and even phobias.
What Exactly Does Tapping Do?
At its core, Tapping helps rebalance emotions. โIt quiets the body and the mind, often in just a few minutes, so we can think clearly and problem-solve again,โ explains therapist Bilazarian.
In other words: when your nervous system is in overdrive, Tapping helps flip the switch back to calm.

How Does It Work?
Think of Tapping as a direct line to your stress response system. By rhythmically tapping on specific acupressure points, youโre sending calming signals to the amygdala and hippocampusโtwo parts of the brain that control how we react to stress.
โImagine a thought that sparks anxiety,โ says EFT practitioner Senia. โYour brain sets off the amygdala fire alarm, launching fight-or-flight mode. But when you tap, you send a signal that itโs safe to stand downโeven if the stressful thought hasnโt gone away.โ
Over time, the hippocampus (your brainโs memory processor) starts to relearn whatโs a real threat and whatโs not. Painful memories can lose their sting. Triggers donโt feel quite so triggering.
What Issues Can Tapping Help With?
According to practitioners, the list is surprisingly long. Tapping has been used for:
- Everyday stress and worry
- Social anxiety and generalized anxiety
- PTSD and trauma recovery
- OCD and panic
- Chronic pain and fibromyalgia
- Depression
- Addictions and phobias
- Weight management struggles
Or as Bilazarian puts it: โTry it on everything.โ
How Often Should You Tap?
The beauty of EFT is its flexibility. You can do it anywhere, anytimeโat your desk, before bed, even in the bathroom before a big meeting.
โThereโs really no downside to self-tapping as often as you need,โ says Senia. โFor deeper issues like PTSD or significant trauma, working with a certified EFT therapist is recommended.โ

Are There Side Effects?
Compared to most treatments, side effects are minimal. Some people may notice an emotional releaseโlike tears, irritability, or sadnessโespecially if tapping brings buried feelings to the surface.
Others might experience yawns or sighs, which Bilazarian says are simply signs the nervous system is shifting from fight-or-flight to rest-and-digest. Thatโs when the immune system and other key body processes function best.
Does It Actually Work?
The science says yes. More than 100 studies back EFTโs effectiveness. In one 2019 study, participants who tapped saw:
- Cravings drop by 74%
- Pain decrease by 57%
- Anxiety reduced by 40%
- Depression lowered by 35%
- PTSD symptoms improved by 32%
- Happiness boosted by 31%
On top of that, cortisol levels dropped, along with blood pressure and heart rate.
And the stories are just as compelling. โI once worked with a man struggling with anger,โ recalls Senia. โAfter a few tapping cycles, he noticed that the neck pain heโd carried for weeks was suddenly goneโand it never came back.โ Stress, it turns out, really had been living in his body.
How to Try Tapping for Yourself
Hereโs a beginner-friendly routine you can try right now:
- Identify the issue. Pick one thing thatโs bothering youโlike stress about a deadline or a nagging headache. Rate it from 0 (no problem) to 10 (severe distress).
- Start with the โkarate chopโ point. Using two fingers, tap the fleshy side of your hand (between your pinky and wrist) while saying a setup statement three times, such as:
- โEven though Iโm stressed about my deadline, I accept myself.โ
If โI accept myselfโ feels too strong, try โIโm okayโ or โI accept how I feel right now.โ
- โEven though Iโm stressed about my deadline, I accept myself.โ
- Move through the tapping points. Gently tap 5โ7 times on each of the following, repeating a reminder phrase like โThis stress is safe to let go.โ
- Inner eyebrow (near bridge of nose)
- Side of eye (temple area)
- Under the eye (on cheekbone)
- Under the nose (between nose and lip)
- Chin (crease under bottom lip)
- Collarbone (just below the bone, near sternum)
- Side of ribcage (about 4 inches below armpit)
- Top of head
- Reassess. Rate your stress or pain level again. Keep tapping until the number drops.
Most people notice relief in just three to ten minutes.
Final Thoughts
EFT Tapping is one of those techniques thatโs almost too simple to believeโbut both science and personal stories suggest it works. The best part? Itโs free, quick, and always at your fingertips.
Next time stress sneaks up on you, instead of reaching for another cup of coffee (or doomscrolling for an hour), try a few rounds of Tapping. You might just find yourself breathing easierโliterally.
